Dating for years and hes not ready to get married how much does money matter in dating
(He may have his own rules about dating for four seasons before popping the question, and there's nothing wrong with that.) Don't Break These Rules Following The Rules means letting him pursue you -- not seeing him more than two or three times a week, refusing to go away with him on weeklong vacations, and not moving in with him or crowding him in any way.If you've done all these things, you've actually helped him fall in love with you and want to marry you. And you will sense his desire to include you in his world.Getting the man you want to propose -- and then turning that proposal into an actual wedding date -- can be a tougher deal to close than a media merger.
For example I don't hear from him for days, or until I write to him first.
If he shows real hesitation, should I dump him and find someone who wants marriage and children?
I feel that we could be very happily married and I don't want to lose him.
You want your relationship to move to deeper levels and build a family, and he's not even sure if he wants to get married, much less have children.
On top of that, you're feeling a stronger emotional connection to him than he seems to have toward you.